Condolence & Memory Journal

Pat, I am so sorry for your loss.

Posted by Brandy Grimes Bunton - Walhalla, SC - Family   May 06, 2021

Andy and Kathy and all the family, I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your son! I cannot imagine the grief that is flooding over you at this time and my heart just aches for you all. You will be in my thoughts and prayers at this time for the God of all comfort to cover you with His love at this time of great loss.

Posted by Diane Fricks Sheriff - Westminster, SC - Friend   May 05, 2021

I only remember so much. From what I do I remember, they're moments I'll never forget as a little girl that I still get flash backs from sometimes . Sending Love and healing energy.

Posted by Clementine Collins - Anderson, SC - Friend   May 05, 2021

Kathy and Andy, sorry for your loss. Prayers for you at this difficult time.

Posted by Craig Boyles - Anderson, SC - Coworker   May 04, 2021

Andy and Kathy,
I am so very sorry about Jay's passing.
I know he will be missed and that you loved him deeply.
Much love to you all,

Posted by Paula Scales - Anderson, SC - Neighbor   May 04, 2021

I am so sorry for the loss of your heart is with you and my prayers.

Posted by Maggie Weathers - Anderson, SC - Family   May 04, 2021


God's Blessings to you all! My heart breaks for you! I love you and will continue to pray for you in the days ahead! Mama and Daddy met Jay at the pearly gates of Heaven!!

Posted by Janie Freeman - Westminster,, SC - Family   May 04, 2021

I am deeply grieved by this loss. Jay was a great support to me several years back when I was enduring a personal crisis and for that I shall be forever grateful.

Posted by C, Mark Sublette - Seneca, SC - Friend   May 04, 2021


Dear Andy, Kathy and Patricia, Our family grieves for you on the loss of your precious son, Jay. We will always remember him as a member of the 'Pride of Pendleton' at PHS. He (and your family) were always so involved going to the games and contests and bringing laughter and fun along. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now as you remember his life and grieve his passing. May God be with you all, bringing comfort during this difficult time.

Posted by Lane & Janet Moore - Anderson, SC - Teacher   May 04, 2021

Our family grieves along with yours. Jay and Tim formed such a special bond in the early Clemson years and since then, nearly all our phone chats with our son included news and plans with yours. Best friends are hard to find and become an integral part of the fabric of our lives. We are grateful that Tim has years of memories to comfort him in the lonely times ahead but we wish he and Jay had had so much more time to enjoy together. Our hearts are broken for our boys...
We will remember Jay forever and smile that he came into our lives!!!
(((Hugs))) across the miles.

Posted by Pam Finnie - Hilton Head Island, SC - Friend   May 04, 2021

Andy, Sandra and I are thinking of you and Kathy at this terrible time, we're so sorry for your loss.

Posted by Jerry Cleland - Westminster, SC - Family Friend   May 03, 2021

I'm so sorry for your loss. Jay loved you all immensely. Very sudden and tragic, but I know he's smiling down knowing y'all are honoring him on Star Wars Day.

Posted by Sapphyre Bailey - Augusta, SC - Friend   May 03, 2021

Dear Pat, Andy andKathy, Our heart breaks for each of you to hear of the sudden death of your precious son Jay. We remember when he was born. May God strengthen and comfort each of you during the difficult days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Gail and Sam Mitchell.

Posted by Sam Mitchell - Friend   May 03, 2021

Jay was so funny, so bright, so unique. I adored him as my student at PHS. It's hard to know that funny, sweet, crazy soul is no longer here.

Posted by Laura Dowis - Anderson, SC - Teacher   May 03, 2021

Andy and Cathy, I'm so sorry to hear about Jay. Our thoughts and prayers are with y'all.

Posted by Vickie Powell - Anderson, SC - Family   May 03, 2021

To the family of Jay, so sorry for your loss, we can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Praying that God will wrap his loving arms around each & everyone of you during your time of sorrow . May Jay RIP.

Posted by Haskell & Betty Long - Westminster, SC - Friend   May 02, 2021

Sending love and support to Jay's family and friends.

Posted by Amy Hazelwood - Friend   May 02, 2021

Andy so sorry to hear about Jay.Want ya'll to know that you are in our prayers.Take care my friend.

Posted by Jim Shaw - Anderson, SC - Friend   May 02, 2021

Praying for you all.

Posted by Steve Gurley - Sandy Springs, SC   May 02, 2021

Sorry to hear of the passing of your son. Know that you are in our prayers.

Posted by Bobby/ Peggy Cason - Anderson - Family Friend   May 02, 2021

You have my heart and prayers during your time of sorrow. May God be very close to you and give you comfort and peace. Much love!

Posted by Gwen Ashley - Honea Path, SC - Friend   May 02, 2021

We Love You Jay, and We know You Loved in peace precious boy!

Posted by Janie Freeman - Westminster,, SC - Family   May 02, 2021

You will be missed Jay. Funny that I was talking about a summer long ago, when we were young and life was to go on forever.

Posted by Caryn Fontaine - Williamston, SC - Friend   May 02, 2021